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THREE FRIENDS

November 2020Written reflection
THREE FRIENDS

Merton, Thomas. The Way of Chuang Tzu:

There were three friends Discussing life.

One said:

“Can men live together

And know nothing of it?

Work together

And produce nothing?

Can they fly around in space

And forget to exist World without end?”

The three friends looked at each other

And burst out laughing.

They had no explanation.

Thus they were better friends than before.

Then one friend died.

Confucius

Sent a disciple to help the other two Chant his obsequies.

The disciple found that one friend

Had composed a song.

While the other played a lute, They sang:

“Hey, Sung Hu!

Where’d you go?

Hey, Sung Hu!

Where’d you go? You have gone

Where you really were.

And we are here—

Damn it! We are here!”

Then the disciple of Confucius burst in on them and Exclaimed: “May I inquire where you found this in the Rubrics for obsequies, This frivolous carolling in the presence of the departed?”

The two friends looked at each other and laughed: “Poor fellow,” they said, “he doesn’t know the new liturgy!”

Merton, Thomas. The Way of Chuang Tzu (Second Edition) (S.55). New Directions. Kindle-Version. Image source: from the book.